If you’ve ever hit, pushed, threatened, or kicked your partner or forced an Aboriginal women to do something sexual she didn’t want to do, then you’ve been part of the problem. If this happened in the past, admit what you did was wrong and make amends if possible. But if such behaviour has any chance of continuing, then you urgently need help getting to the root of your problem. Don’t wait until it happens again.

Please act today. Most men will never be physically or sexually violent. We all need to examine ways we might try to control women. Do we dominate conversations? Do we put them down? Do we limit their activities? Do we make the decisions? We all must think about the choices we make.